Wait on God and also in God is a message that was coined by Pastor T. Mwangi on 21 October 2020. This was to mark their Third anniversary. Pastor T shares how he almost lost hopes of getting married. Here is his explanation of the lessons he learned during that period.
My story is long because by the time I was 30 years old, I had given up on love and marriage. I learned a few things in my chaos which I will share. Allow me to share 3 insights as I celebrate my 3rd anniversary.
Love does not need ability only but capacity, Pastor T. Mwangi
In my early twenties, I fell in love but I couldn’t handle the demands of love. Ability is external and capacity is internal. Emotions are for attraction but maturity is for retention. I learned that, Ability is anatomical but capacity is psychological.
Love is not the only reason why people get married but destiny, though you need love to get married.
God never created a lover but a helper. When the future is not clear you will end up with a roommate instead of a destiny mate.
When you launch on the path of Destiny automatically jokers will be vomited out. To answer the question of how do I know whether he/she is the one just launch out in destiny. “I knew am a preacher and I needed a woman with a burden for souls hence I was not looking for a business woman but a kingdom woman. If I got married to a business woman our views would be different where I see souls she would see sales.” Says Pastor T. Mwangi
Remember in every man there is a husband but not every husband is your husband and in every woman there is a wife but not every wife is your wife.
Do not skip the process. Wait On God
Many have allowed love to make them mothers and fathers before they became husbands and wives. The foundation of everything is very key. Jesus talks of two builders one who built on the rock and another on the sand. Both buildings faced the same challenges but the one built on the rock withstood the challenge. Let your foundation be the rock of ages.
Dating is not for mating neither is it a feeding program but a time to collect data. The the time must be reasonable a minimum of an year but let it not be too long otherwise you will enter into sexual sin.
Marriage counselling is very key. Good marriages stand on wisdom. Marriage is the only field where you enter without experience hence the experiences of other people will help alot.
Marriage is about two imperfect people standing before a perfect God. If you choose to stand before the Atorney General or the village elders, the day trouble will erupt then you are doomed. Let God be the pillar of your marriage from day one and you will enjoy marriage.
Pastor T. mwangi had this to say to his wife; “To my wife happy anniversary to us. I couldn’t ask for anyone else. Not only did you make me a husband but a father. Outside there they know me as a lion but in your arms am a chubby Teddy bear. To many more Happy 3rd Anniversary to Us.”
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